Smoking Femdom

It sounds like you're interested in the intersection of smoking fetish (often called capnolagnia) and femdom (female domination). This kink can involve a dominant woman incorporating smoking—cigarettes, cigars, or other tobacco products—into power play, humiliation, or sensory control. Here’s a breakdown of common themes:

1. Power Dynamics & Control

• A dominant woman might use smoking to assert authority (e.g., blowing smoke in a submissive’s face, making them light her cigarettes).
• Controlling when/how the submissive can breathe (smoke denial/exhalation play).

2. Humiliation & Service

• Forcing the sub to be an ashtray (holding ashes or extinguishing cigarettes safely on their body).
• Making them beg for a puff or clean up cigarette remnants.

3. Sensory Play

• The smell, taste, and visual appeal of smoke can enhance domination.
• Combining smoking with other BDSM elements (e.g., bondage, verbal degradation).

Safety & Consent

• Negotiate boundaries (e.g., no actual burns, limits on smoke inhalation).
• Be aware of health risks (secondhand smoke, fire hazards).

If you're exploring this kink, clear communication with your partner(s) is key. Would you like tips on roleplay scenarios or safety precautions?